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The most common breakup line of all time. I think all someone would need to become an expert in human psychology would be to sit online and watch their own news feed or tags and see all the different quirks of the human experience come rushing in. And when it comes to breakups that you may hear about online, see in person, experience yourself, or enact with others, there is only one line that stands head and shoulders above the rest:. This line has been one of the most topical lines ever. So what does it really mean? One of my favourite things to write about are those big statements we commonly use in relationships.
The entire picture may be something like one or more of the following:.
Plain and simple, but too rude to say… right? How do you tell someone you think you can do better physically?
The double edged sword of physical attraction. Or perhaps their personality is a major turnoff. I think compatibility is something that be developed. I guess this one really comes down to agreement.
Or you could be heading completely different directions in life. This is the worst. The heart is deceitful above all things. And the heart can change over time. You definitely will develop feelings for someone else at some point in your life.
We can fall in love, and fall out of it. It happens many times where a person enjoys the attention and affection someone else provides. It could be their considerate nature, it could be the physical acts of kindness the person carries out, it could be the listening ear or the love being sent their way….
But when asked to return the favour, the recipient may lock up. Now their lucrative arrangement is in jeopardy. The other reality around this statement is when someone is using this line, and it is actually completely true. One of my female mentors observed that the younger generation of today seems to struggle with the idea of having career and relationship at the same time. With being able to date at the Its not you its me excuse time as studying at university or college.
So many people are loaded up with activity and forward motion and ambition and dreams, but desperately alone because no one knows or is actively involved. This one is pretty common when someone has been through bad relationships in the past, or is currently dealing with some bigger issue in their lives — whether it be an addiction, a health concern, or some other extenuating circumstance.
Because there is a possibility you may never actually get better than you are right now. Or perhaps you may even get worse. Two are better than one. Where one is weak, another can be strong. Help for the journey. A safe place to rest your head. A listening ear and a supportive heart.
Oh boy. This one is actually a much bigger issue than I can write about here. This is often the sinister reality behind this statement. Many movies explore this sense of self-loathing or undervaluing yourself, such as Something Borrowed and Where The Heart Is. And try as hard as the person saying this might to convince this person otherwise since they are trying to foster a deeper relationship with this person… that should speak enough as it isit falls to the self-esteem of the individual using this line to be vulnerable and real enough to allow someone to love them for who they are.
What a devastating web we weave when we fail to say what we really mean. Or perhaps there are many of out there who really do continually fail to address things in our own lives, and this poor person keeps finding all of them. And when another person enters our lives, or makes an attempt, they start to press all the buttons in our heart that remind us of the challenges we have within ourselves.
Whatever the case is, I think honesty always wins.
Saying where you really are. Speaking the truth in love. Being open to the voices of love in our lives.
When done right, I firmly believe that love can be a taste of heaven. And yet we will throw up so many barricades or wrestle with many setbacks in this area. You may have even the tone is more towards people coming together than it is about us breaking it off.
The human heart was made for intimacy. So I hope in your life, you find the truth. Not just a commonly used expression, but the reality of what may be holding another back, or holding yourself back. An ability to recognize something worth pursuing, or of something that you may need to leave alone. DatingLoveMarriage. Address. Walking the Shoreline. Search for:. It could be their considerate nature, it could be the physical acts of kindness the person carries out, it could be the listening ear or the love being sent their way… But when asked to return the favour, the recipient may lock up.
Saying what you mean What a devastating web we weave when we fail to say what we really mean. Have you used or heard this line before? The Discussion Cancel reply.Its not you its me excuse
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